Your Child's Human Design
When you know you are becoming a parent, so many questions start going through your mind. What will they be like? Will I know what to do? Do you know how wonderful a parenting manual would be?
The beautiful thing is, a Human Design chart has all the information you need whether you are an infant or an adult in your 50’s. The beauty of having a chart for your children is that you can teach and encourage them from a very young age to live according to their true nature and navigate life with an ease that most of us have never known.
Parenting can be stressful, yet with a Human Design Chart, it doesn’t have to be
Looking at your child’s human design chart, you will see their true nature and strengths.
Knowing your design and that of your child allows for unchangeable, genetically-driven family dynamics to be shown. Seeing what cannot be changed in the family dynamic gives you freedom from trying to change the unchangeable and can help you focus on alternative ways to problem solve.
How amazing would it be from birth to honestly know your child, understand each stage of development and what to expect, and have a method of teaching your child how to be self-empowered and always to feel loveable? How wonderful as the parent to also be clearing your patterns and personal conditioning that may influence your parenting style as you are working with your chart.
When we are gifted with these little beings, our role is to guide and show them how to navigate the world we live in by helping them find appropriate ways to love, be empowered, authentic, and become comfortable expressing their true self. Being able to parent them in a way that encourages and supports their growth, yet, still know how to teach them, to feed their bodies correctly, make good choices with friends, education, and garner all the skills to get from childhood to adulthood.
Utilizing your child’s human design chart, mentoring your child in a safe environment to become themselves is the greatest gift we can give them. Their chart shows you what your child is here for and what roads in their life are going to be their strengths and capabilities. How amazing is it to be able to see your child for what and who they are?
To Fully Embrace Your Child by their DESIGN: If my child is a:
Generator: They need to be asked yes/no questions and respect their response. They are naturally responsive and need to be encouraged to pay attention to their response. Generator children make non-verbal sounds that will give you a positive, negative, or neutral response to everything they encounter. When a generator child is taught to act only in response to being asked or presented with something and act only when the response is positive or negative. As a parent, the understanding of sound is vital, and not to force a generator child to say the words “yes” or “no” in place of their sounds (grunts/groans). Once a child learns their natural response, it will be easy to teach the way society expects politeness in words. It just isn’t a process to rush. As a parent becoming comfortable and willing to take “no” for an answer when asked your generator child, a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer is essential. It is very healthy for a generator child to be able to say “no”.
Projector: invite them into things and encourage them to study what you as the parent recognizes, “turns them on,” or excites them. Projector children need to be recognized and appreciated for who they are. They need to be invited to experiment, explore, and experience all that life has to offer. Some projector children will not accept many of the invitations being offered. They will say “no.” An invitation is an invitation and no a command. Acknowledging that ‘no’ or negotiating that ‘no’ depends on how well you the parent knows your child’s full human design chart to appreciate your child’s talents, strengths, and vulnerabilities. This will help you guide your child in knowing which invitations are ‘good for them and not.
Manifestor: teaching them manners (to ask permission as polite informing). Manifestor children can be difficult for many parents. They are not naturally controllable because they know intuitively that they can “just do it” themselves without help from anyone. Teaching a manifestor child to ask for permission is extremely important. The parents need to not unreasonably deny the child’s requests so that the child and parent build trust in their relationship. Manifestor children need to be treated politely so that they can learn to treat others politely. It is essential to help the manifestor child understand that their action strongly impacts others. Learning this early on will help them understand the importance of informing others who will be affected by their actions, which will keep all their relationships running smoother.
Reflector: observing them as they are the barometer of how the family operates and knowing that they cannot be rushed as they need the full lunar cycle (28.5 days) to make major decisions.
If the reflector child is laughing, jumping around, those around this child are feeling good. If your reflector child is crying, someone in their environment is having a difficult time emotionally. The reflector child reflects everything in the environment around them. In social settings, they will want to be near the middle or center of the action. This is their natural place as they read the environment around them to gather information to make decisions from. It is vital not to RUSH a reflector child in any decision. They need a lot of time and for major decisions, a whole month, before they will know if it is correct or not for them. As a reflector parent, learning patience allows the child the time they need to reflect on things.
The beautiful thing is that as a parent, the more you know your design and our living it, parenting your child by their design, the easier life will be. Each of you will know your truths and values and the roads to travel. In working with a few families, children over 8 have a much easier time grasping their designs and beginning to live them than most adults.
Give yourself and your child the gift of knowing who they are. To have a human design chart done, contact me for details at kaia@kaiaalline.com