I Have Changed My Mind- Manifesting Generators

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Relationships are a natural part of our lives.  We have relationships with ourselves, with parents, other family, friends, partners, children and with so many other people we come in contact with in work settings, volunteer settings, and in numerous other activities that we come in contact with every day.

Having your human design chart is helpful in guiding you how to build a relationship with yourself, it gives you a manual to follow.  It is so helpful in giving you a guide to know how you operate based on your type, profile, gates, open and closed centers, the planetary alignments and neutrino fields,  Yes, it is a lot and of course we are not going to master all in one reading or even numerous, but starting with the basics can bring so many changes to your life.

Add to that the years the majority of us have been living without any knowledge of our human design charts, not fully grasping all the conditioning that has been placed upon us, is it any wonder so many feel their lives are not being lived fully.  That is what I have loved the most about having my chart.  It is my guide to help guide me back to my authentic self.  I have also found it has really helped in relationships.  I am much clearer about how I present in relationships and how to be more authentic with others that I am in relationship with.

If you are a manifesting generator you might feel or be intense, restless, always ready to go-go-go and seldom able to sit still.  Learning how best to initiate and makes things happen; utilize all that energy you generate, can be quite the balancing act and brings about all sorts of frustration and anger if you are not honoring your generator/sacral response of waiting for the correct response before acting.

When you are a manifesting generator, knowing all of this as well as the other aspects of your chart, will guide you in being happy in your relationships as well as all of us who are in relationships with you.

Having friends who are manifesting generators, I have come to expect that plans may change.  I have learned that plans with them are not set in stone.  Consider this scenario: you have a friend at work named Sara.  Everyone is talking about a new movie that was just released.  Someone suggests that everyone go on Friday after work.  In that moment, Sara gets the uh-uh response from her gut and says yes, count me in.  Friday comes along and everyone is preparing to go and as Sara gets up, she realizes, that no, she really doesn’t want to go and lets everyone know she isn’t going to be going.  She has also learned some of her friends will be okay with this and others, not so much.  This is normal for manifesting generators.  In the moment of being asked, she received the correct response, but when it was time to go, she checked again before proceeding and listened to her gut to know that going to the movie now was no longer correct for her. 

If you are in relationships with manifesting generators, this is so important to understand as this is how they are supposed to operate.  They are not doing it to upset or confuse anyone.  It is just who they are.

Romantic relationships are no different.  Many manifesting generators, dive into relationships full force and then they end just as quickly.  Often this happens because they didn’t check in with their gut at the beginning and then keeping trying to make things work via thinking and working so hard to make it right. When it doesn’t there will be frustration and anger.  It is so important for manifesting generators to wait for life to come to them and then respond to it (just so you know whether you are to respond or not).

Hmm, you may be asking if you are a manifesting generator.  How would I wait before jumping into a relationship?  That doesn’t sound like fun……

Imagine yourself at an event.  There are all sorts of people mulling around.  You are with your friends and scanning the room.  As you look across the room, you notice this guy/gal and you feel your heart flutter.  As a manifesting generator, stop, take a breath and ask yourself (waiting to respond), if you should make contact?  If you get a yes, uh-huh, go across the room and begin chatting (taking action) and as you are chatting, you will know (moment of truth) whether to proceed.  This makes relationship building so much easier and clearer and will bring you happiness and joy as it was easy and effortless.